{"id":8026,"date":"2017-07-14T06:00:52","date_gmt":"2017-07-14T10:00:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.elfster.com\/?p=8026"},"modified":"2025-07-30T10:31:53","modified_gmt":"2025-07-30T14:31:53","slug":"graduation-party-planning-checklist-elfsters-guide","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/2017\/07\/14\/graduation-party-planning-checklist-elfsters-guide\/","title":{"rendered":"A Graduation Party Planning Checklist: Elfster\u2019s How-To Guide"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.elfster.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/A-Go-To-Grad-Party-Checklist-Elfster-Blog.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-8000 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.elfster.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/A-Go-To-Grad-Party-Checklist-Elfster-Blog-300x150.jpg\" alt=\"graduation party planning\" width=\"756\" height=\"378\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/A-Go-To-Grad-Party-Checklist-Elfster-Blog-300x150.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/A-Go-To-Grad-Party-Checklist-Elfster-Blog-768x384.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/A-Go-To-Grad-Party-Checklist-Elfster-Blog-1024x512.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/A-Go-To-Grad-Party-Checklist-Elfster-Blog-540x270.jpg 540w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 756px) 100vw, 756px\" \/><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_8027\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-8027\" style=\"width: 395px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.elfster.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/glenn-carstens-peters-190592.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-8027\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.elfster.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/glenn-carstens-peters-190592-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"Plan to celebrate your 2017 grad | Image courtesy Unsplash user Glenn Carstens-Peters \" width=\"395\" height=\"263\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/glenn-carstens-peters-190592-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/glenn-carstens-peters-190592-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/glenn-carstens-peters-190592-1024x681.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/glenn-carstens-peters-190592-406x270.jpg 406w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 395px) 100vw, 395px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-8027\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Plan to celebrate your 2017 grad | Image courtesy Unsplash user <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/photos\/RLw-UC03Gwc\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Glenn Carstens-Peters<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When I was getting ready to start college back in the 90s (cue lightning and thunderbolts in the background), we didn\u2019t really need much. Bedding and such, of course, but besides that just a couple of packing crates, my books, my Discman, my CD case, and, of course, some decorations to show just how unique and idiosyncratic I was. I think there was an Escher? That blew some minds, man. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In some ways, not a lot has changed. College students still need bedding, and still have the need to demonstrate their personality. But there is more necessary in order to compete, to survive, and to thrive these days. College-bound students are entering a very competitive atmosphere with technology that people my age couldn\u2019t have even imagined, and are<\/span> <i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">still<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> dealing with the terror-thrills of independence, the fear of failure, and the rush of exploration that makes for a great college experience. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, as we roll through graduation and college preparation season, how should you celebrate that? What kind of party should they have, and what should you give them? What can you gift your graduate, or the grade-school friend from whom you\u2019ll be separated for the first time? What should you give to send someone off without really saying goodbye? Here\u2019s your elfishly insightful graduation party planning checklist and gift guide.<\/span><\/p>\n<h4>The Go-To Graduation Party Planning Checklist<\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, the first thing you need to do before sending them off to the halls of academia is the graduation party\u2014and we have your planning checklist. Graduation parties are kind of an odd hybrid, both a culmination and a consecration: you\u2019re getting them ready for a voyage and honoring how they got here. So what do you need to make it successful, to honor the past and the future and that winnowing present? <\/span><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_8003\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-8003\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.elfster.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.779975230_iiq0-min.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-8003\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.elfster.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.779975230_iiq0-min-300x264.jpg\" alt=\"graduation party cake\" width=\"300\" height=\"264\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.779975230_iiq0-min-300x264.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.779975230_iiq0-min-768x676.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.779975230_iiq0-min-1024x902.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.779975230_iiq0-min-307x270.jpg 307w, https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.779975230_iiq0-min.jpg 1500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-8003\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Not pictured: the \u201cBecause You\u2019ll Need It\u201d banner | Image courtesy Etsy seller <a href=\"https:\/\/www.etsy.com\/listing\/235255027\/good-luck-cake-topper-orange-turquoise?ga_order=most_relevant&amp;ga_search_type=all&amp;ga_view_type=gallery&amp;ga_search_query=good%20luck%20banner&amp;ref=sr_gallery_12&amp;source=aw&amp;utm_source=affiliate_window&amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;utm_campaign=us_location_buyer&amp;awc=6220_1498860512_82214af364767eb747c2de092cf780a5&amp;utm_content=256677\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">SoSimpleSoSweet<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cake, obviously. But more. <\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Reserve a venue. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re going to throw a big party and need to pick a venue, make sure you pick it well in advance. Remember that you aren\u2019t the only one with a graduate (unless you\u2019re from a really, really small town), so your favorite place is probably someone else\u2019s too. Book a few months in advance. <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Send out guest invites<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Make sure you send out the invites far enough in advance. Graduation season and wedding season are at the same time, and coincide with vacation season. And summer TV season, which is really good these days, amiright? Anyway, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">get out the invites<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> early. Make sure your friends pick you. <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Choose: music or band? <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How much do you want to go all out on this? If you\u2019re having a big party, make sure you book a band in advance. And, honestly, don\u2019t make it a surprise. Check with the graduate. Don\u2019t just think, \u201cThe kids will love this Nickelback cover band!\u201d You\u2019re on the internet. You know better. <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Plan for food: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At the last few parties I\u2019ve been to, I\u2019ve noticed that the catered food came from a friend who was starting a company. Different parties, different friends, different companies. And it was all awesome. There are a lot of startups out there, with people trying their hand at business. And with a lot of the established brands booked, give them a shot. The food I had was great. It\u2019s a perfect mix of supply and demand.<\/span><\/span>\n<figure id=\"attachment_8010\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-8010\" style=\"width: 354px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.elfster.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.1203666768_n1dz-min.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-8010\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.elfster.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.1203666768_n1dz-min-300x199.jpg\" alt=\"graduation party planning 2017\" width=\"354\" height=\"235\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.1203666768_n1dz-min-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.1203666768_n1dz-min-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.1203666768_n1dz-min-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.1203666768_n1dz-min-1536x1017.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.1203666768_n1dz-min-2048x1356.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.1203666768_n1dz-min-408x270.jpg 408w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 354px) 100vw, 354px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-8010\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Of course you need balloons | Image courtesy Etsy seller <a href=\"https:\/\/www.etsy.com\/listing\/531911123\/class-of-2017-balloons-graduation-party?ga_order=most_relevant&amp;ga_search_type=all&amp;ga_view_type=gallery&amp;ga_search_query=graduation%20party&amp;ref=sr_gallery_28&amp;source=aw&amp;utm_source=affiliate_window&amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;utm_campaign=us_location_buyer&amp;awc=6220_1498860530_cdf05e9ade3e6a65716d251450eedfb2&amp;utm_content=256677\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Paris312party<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>String up decorations<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. This is the hard part. You don\u2019t want corny. You don\u2019t just want a few mortarboards lying around. Celebrate who they are, and celebrate who they will be. Try out a few different things. Some of our suggestions include:<\/span><\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Pictures of and information about their college.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> These are great conversation starters and can actually help prevent the grad from repeating \u201cI\u2019m going to X\u201d 100 times. <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Yearbooks.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Everyone wants to see the yearbook. Don\u2019t hide it (depending on the autographs, of course).<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>A slideshow of them growing up<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, hitting key moments of their life. Show how that tiny person with impossibly small toes became an incredible human on the cusp of adulthood. Because that\u2019s what this is all about.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s also about the gifts, though, so here are some ideas for both parents, friends, and other family to send someone away at their last hometown bash in style&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<h4>The Starting-College Basics Gift Guide<\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What does a college dorm room need? Something that\u2019s practical <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> fun? Obviously, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.target.com\/s?searchTerm=dorm+bedding&amp;category=0%7CAll%7Cmatchallpartial%7Call+categories&amp;lnk=snav_sbox_firepit\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you\u2019ll want to get bedding<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, at least a couple sets (let\u2019s be honest, laundry will be low priority). And you\u2019ll want to get them some nice clothes so they don\u2019t end up going to class in sweatpants (spoiler: they will anyway). So above and beyond that, what can you get them to make the college experience even better? Let\u2019s start with some sweet chairs. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Some Sweet Chairs for Making Friends<\/strong><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_8005\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-8005\" style=\"width: 294px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.elfster.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.988275189_qzwz-min.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-8005\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.elfster.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.988275189_qzwz-min-278x300.jpg\" alt=\"party gift for grads\" width=\"294\" height=\"317\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.988275189_qzwz-min-278x300.jpg 278w, https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.988275189_qzwz-min-250x270.jpg 250w, https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.988275189_qzwz-min.jpg 546w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 294px) 100vw, 294px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-8005\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Modern knit bean bags\u2026 who knew? | Image courtesy <a href=\"https:\/\/www.etsy.com\/listing\/286218061\/chunky-merino-wool-grey-knitted-kids?ga_order=most_relevant&amp;ga_search_type=all&amp;ga_view_type=gallery&amp;ga_search_query=bean%20bag%20chair&amp;ref=sr_gallery_11&amp;source=aw&amp;utm_source=affiliate_window&amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;utm_campaign=us_location_buyer&amp;awc=6220_1498860565_5d34a319dba2d0fcdbc23ecb0e08b96d&amp;utm_content=256677\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">GeiMarGa<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I never actually had a beanbag chair, but I had a few roommates who did. I never quite understood the point of them: these shapeless lumps with virtually no function that wouldn\u2019t support you and did nothing but lurk uncomfortably in the room. And the chairs weren\u2019t much better! But that\u2019s different now. I was looking up beanbag chairs, and discovered that they now have form and support. Some, amazingly, even have fur. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But those aren\u2019t the only kind of chairs. A chair should be comfortable, but should be sort of expressive. It should tell you something about the person. The furry beanbag shows a goofy sense of humor, a pratfalling luxe, if you will. But there are others. You can take a look at:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>A canvas director\u2019s chair<\/b><b>.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> This is for an artist who sort of wants to lounge above her friends. <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>A bungee chair<\/b><b>.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> This is great for the person who knows that the chair can also be used for improvised throwing games (in other words, a college student). <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>The reclining seat<\/b><b>.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> For the kid who isn\u2019t going to share their chair. <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>The reclining loveseat<\/b><b>.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> For the kid who is.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Needless to say, these are all seats for lounging around and hanging out with friends in the dorm, or playing video games. Some homework will be done on them, but for that, you need a desk. <\/span><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_8006\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-8006\" style=\"width: 320px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.elfster.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.1002628316_97to-min.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-8006\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.elfster.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.1002628316_97to-min-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"desk for college grad party gift\" width=\"320\" height=\"213\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.1002628316_97to-min-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.1002628316_97to-min-405x270.jpg 405w, https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.1002628316_97to-min.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-8006\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Retro can still hold a computer | Image courtesy Etsy seller <a href=\"https:\/\/www.etsy.com\/listing\/227151550\/desk-table-wood-desk-computer-desk?ga_order=most_relevant&amp;ga_search_type=all&amp;ga_view_type=gallery&amp;ga_search_query=desk&amp;ref=sr_gallery_6&amp;source=aw&amp;utm_source=affiliate_window&amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;utm_campaign=us_location_buyer&amp;awc=6220_1498860601_171c75d7462c1d143ee9c1b324fa57c3&amp;utm_content=256677\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ReclaimedWoodUSA<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>A Throwback Desk to Prepare for the Future<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some colleges, of course, provide desks in the dorms, but if your doesn\u2019t, or if your college student will be living off campus, they\u2019ll need a desk. So, above and beyond the Marley poster, this is a good chance to show off some personality. A nephew of mine needed a desk, so my wife and I got him a very cool, old-fashioned, rustic-looking one. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s what\u2019s in these days, for both young people and old men like myself: bespoke, traditional, hand-crafted items that smack of a DIY aesthetic and aren\u2019t the exact same thing as seen in everyone\u2019s dorm. There\u2019s been a silent revolution against mass production, and nowhere is that more true than in young people. Unless that mass production is in video games, of course. That they are fine with. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Gifts to Say Goodbye to Friends<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">College is about meeting new people but, in a very real way, it is also about separation. We\u2019ve directed most of this article to parents getting ready to send their kid off to school for the first terrifying time, and ways to make them more comfortable. But what do you give a friend when you are saying goodbye, maybe for the first time ever, save for some summer camps and family vacations?<\/span><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_8011\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-8011\" style=\"width: 367px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.elfster.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.1203937756_gogq-min.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-8011\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.elfster.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.1203937756_gogq-min-300x246.jpg\" alt=\"graduation party planning\" width=\"367\" height=\"301\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.1203937756_gogq-min-300x246.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.1203937756_gogq-min-768x629.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.1203937756_gogq-min-1024x839.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.1203937756_gogq-min-330x270.jpg 330w, https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/il_fullxfull.1203937756_gogq-min.jpg 1406w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 367px) 100vw, 367px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-8011\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">If your grad doesn\u2019t like their party, I\u2019ll eat my hat | Image courtesy Etsy seller <a href=\"https:\/\/www.etsy.com\/listing\/531990041\/custom-listing-one-dozen-graduation?ga_order=most_relevant&amp;ga_search_type=all&amp;ga_view_type=gallery&amp;ga_search_query=graduation%20cap%20cookies&amp;ref=sr_gallery_30&amp;source=aw&amp;utm_source=affiliate_window&amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;utm_campaign=us_location_buyer&amp;awc=6220_1498860634_a45ccd0db66a61e931dabfe0522e3474&amp;utm_content=256677\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Bakedlovely<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These are old-fashioned, but they never go out of style. <\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b>A journal for two.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> You\u2019re both going to be doing amazing things, and meeting new people. You\u2019ll have new adventures. And while text, Facebook, and all the other social media things make it easier than ever to catch up, they don\u2019t have much depth. So give your friend a journal, but with a twist. Address it to each other. Write down thoughts like letters, and you can exchange them. That\u2019s a way that you can stay connected even when you aren\u2019t, and can catch up. <\/span><\/li>\n<li><b>Your favorite movies.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> What movies did you watch over and over and over together? Make sure they have copies, whether it\u2019s the physical movie or buying it for them on Amazon. Even if it\u2019s a kid\u2019s movie. Especially if it\u2019s a kid\u2019s movie. That brings a sweet nostalgia when everything seems to be changing. <\/span><\/li>\n<li><b>A shared playlist.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Chances are, you\u2019ve listened to a lot of songs together over the years. You have a soundtrack of your lives. So put it into a playlist, and give it to your friend. Whenever they put it on, they\u2019ll remember the time you went swimming at night, or stayed up til dawn watching movies, or went nervously to the dance then had a great time.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But here\u2019s the thing about those songs: they\u2019ll listen to them, and create new memories. There will be new associations. And that\u2019s ok. They won\u2019t replace the old. They\u2019ll swirl together, mixed in that great rush of life. Memories don\u2019t have to be exclusive. That\u2019s the heart of going to college. You meet new people and try new things and forge new memories but remain fundamentally yourself. It\u2019s not about chairs or desks or even music: it\u2019s about the people who interact with them. The ability to do so, to forge a path in life while staying in touch with the past, is the greatest gift of all. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>It\u2019s been awhile since we graduated from NPU (North Pole University), so Elfster wants to live vicariously through you! Share your favorite college prep stories\u2014and this year\u2019s best gifts\u2014on our <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/elfster\/?fref=ts\"><b><i>Facebook page<\/i><\/b><b><i>,<\/i><\/b><\/a><b><i> on Twitter @Elfster, or on Instagram @Elfstergram. And, for inspired gifting ideas, browse our <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.elfster.com\/shop\/guide\/510\/beach-getaway\/\"><b><i>Beach Getaway Gift Guide<\/i><\/b><\/a><b><i>.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\">When I was getting ready to start college back in the 90s (cue lightning and thunderbolts in the background), we didn\u2019t really need much. 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